feat: subquery to join on not in

[KKould]

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Summary

This rule comes from the subquery optimization mentioned in the wetune paper: https://ipads.se.sjtu.edu.cn:1312/opensource/wetune/-/blob/main/wtune_data/issues/issues?ref_type=heads#L9

it will try to convert not in subquery to in subquery

SELECT *
FROM posts
         INNER JOIN topics ON topics.id = posts.topic_id
WHERE NOT posts.id IN (SELECT post_id FROM post_search_data WHERE locale = '0');

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SELECT *
FROM posts
         INNER JOIN topics ON topics.id = posts.topic_id
WHERE posts.id IN (SELECT p2.id
                   FROM posts p2
                            LEFT JOIN post_search_data pd ON locale = '0' AND p2.id = pd.post_id
                   WHERE pd.post_id IS NULL)

part of #17607

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