wayland: implement surface-invalidation-v1

[llyyr]

Allows mpv to recover from gpu resets

Depends on: https://gitlab.freedesktop.org/wayland/wayland-protocols/-/merge_requests/180

[Dudemanguy]

Probably want to destroy the wp_surface_invalidation objects on uninit.

[llyyr]

Probably want to destroy the wp_surface_invalidation objects on uninit.

Thanks, forgot about that

[Nefsen402]

Surface invalidation doesn't just get invoked when a gpu reset happens but also doesn't necessarily mean it will ever get invoked (eg multigpu - the surface can be recovered from a blit from another GPU). Surface invalidation also has its uses in hotplug multi-gpu so recreating the entire vo seems a little bit too much for that. Ideally, robustness would just be hooked up but I don't think it matters all that much at this stage.