feat(MeshRetry): allow setting numRetries to 0 to disable retries

[lahabana]

Currently if you have any retry policy inherited from anywhere you
wouldn't be able to remove the retries in a more specific policy.

This enables users to set {grpc,http}.numRetries = 0 in a more
specific policy and remove the retry filter completely.

It also disallows tcp.maxConnectAttempt = 0 which would create an
invalid envoy configuration.

fix #10248

Checklist prior to review

• Link to relevant issue as well as docs and UI issues --
• This will not break child repos: it doesn't hardcode values (.e.g "kumahq" as a image registry) and it will work on Windows, system specific functions like syscall.Mkfifo have equivalent implementation on the other OS --
• Tests (Unit test, E2E tests, manual test on universal and k8s) --
  • Don't forget ci/ labels to run additional/fewer tests
• Do you need to update UPGRADE.md? --
• Does it need to be backported according to the backporting policy? (this GH action will add "backport" label based on these file globs, if you want to prevent it from adding the "backport" label use no-backport-autolabel label) --