build(deps): switch to new namespace for jakarta.json-api library

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What this PR changes/adds

Changes the group id fo the jakarta.json api library.
To do that I had to add a parsson implementation, because from version 2.1.0 api and implementation have been separated (ref. https://github.com/jakartaee/jsonp-api/releases/tag/2.1.0-RELEASE)

Why it does that

Briefly state why the change was necessary.

Further notes

• took the opportunity to rename the reference in the version catalog to the standard notation
• speed up DataPlaneSelectorEndToEndTest and remove related deprecation usages

Linked Issue(s)

Closes #4271

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All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 75.04%. Comparing base (7f20ba5) to head (f6adb01).
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