fix: upgrades http-proxy to prevent closed socket crash

[JamesNimlos]

• Closes Cypress crashes with "Error: This socket has been ended by the other party" at unpredictable times #27552

Additional details

• If the socket is not open the write will fail and crash the server and cypress.

Steps to test

Reproduction steps are not concrete as this type of issue happens sporadically. This is a temporary validation of the changes introduced in cypress-io/node-http-proxy#1 to confirm they do not break existing proxy functionality and tests.

How has the user experience changed?

N/A

PR Tasks

• na Have tests been added/updated?
• na Has a PR for user-facing changes been opened in cypress-documentation?
• na Have API changes been updated in the type definitions?

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[jennifer-shehane]

@JamesNimlos We talked a bit internally about using patch-package to just move all of the changes made from the branched http-proxy repo we have including this change. This was just a very old repo branch. If you're open to doing that work, that would get this in a better state than the stale repo branch we have. Explanation of patch-package:

cypress/guides/patch-package.md

Line 7 in f3bdb9f

3. Patch the package using the [`patch-package`](https://github.com/ds300/patch-package#readme) utility on install/build

[AtofStryker]

Hi @JamesNimlos! Thank you for opening a pull request. What we have decided to do as a team is patch the http-proxy package instead of continuing to maintain a fork. I have taken the changes in cypress-io/node-http-proxy#1 and applied them in #29499. I am going to close both requests in favor of #29499.