feat: added escaping for: for to adapt windows path

[lllbbbyyy]

Description

On Windows platforms, colons are used in paths as part of the drive letter, which can cause incorrect parsing as command arguments. Escaped colons (\:) are handled here so that they can be properly escaped

Motivation and Context

Adaptation changes made for Windows platform support for kitex

Related Issue

fix cloudwego/kitex#469

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[HeyJavaBean]

hi，感谢提议。但现在我们暂时还没考虑支持 windows 场景。等后续开始适配 windows 了我们再系统性的做支持。