[Fix](batch) Fixed an issue where the writer might be blocked in batch mode

[JNSimba]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem Summary:

1. When using DorisBatchWriter to write, when the cache is full, it will be blocked until Flush succeeds. At this time, if be hangs up, the write will continue to fail, and DorisBatchWriter will continue to wait without being awakened, resulting in a stuck state.

2. When be hangs up, streamload will not return a message, and it will be more intuitive to directly throw a response

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior: (Yes/No/I Don't know)
2. Has unit tests been added: (Yes/No/No Need)
3. Has document been added or modified: (Yes/No/No Need)
4. Does it need to update dependencies: (Yes/No)
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back: (Yes/No)

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