Feat: add shouldSelectOnPressUp prop to collection components

[YumiChen]

Closes #7887

• Add shouldSelectOnPressUp prop to GridList following ListBox
• Add shouldSelectOnPressUp to GridList story

✅ Pull Request Checklist:

• Included link to corresponding React Spectrum GitHub Issue.
• Added/updated unit tests and storybook for this change (for new code or code which already has tests).
• Filled out test instructions.
• Updated documentation (if it already exists for this component).
• Looked at the Accessibility Practices for this feature - Aria Practices

📝 Test Instructions:

• download StackBlitz example from GridList (in Popover) closes containing Modal on select #7887 and run the project in local
• build react-aria-components module from the PR branch and set up a yarn link
• link react-aria-components module in the StackBlitz project
• add shouldSelectOnPressUp prop as true to GridList
• follow the steps in GridList (in Popover) closes containing Modal on select #7880 (reply in thread) and verify that the modal wouldn't be closed on clicking grid options

🧢 Your Project:

[snowystinger]

Thanks for the PR, would you mind adding tests in react-aria-components/test/GridList.test.js ?
I'd point you to ListBox's tests, but it seems it's tested implicitly by Menu, but it looks like there's no coverage for GridList.

If you don't have time, let us know.
Thank you!

[YumiChen]

@snowystinger Thank you for the reminder. I added some unit tests and verified the changes by following the test instructions included in the PR description. Please let me know if there are any suggestions

[snowystinger]

Thanks so much! I added a story specifically for the use case to make sure that was resolved. It looks good!

[YumiChen]

Got it. Thank you @snowystinger!

[devongovett]

Doesn't look like this is currently a public prop in ListBox, only an option of the useListBox hook. Do we want to expose it on ListBox too?