[DBMON-5975] Upgrade libpq to 18.3

[eric-weaver]

What does this PR do?

Upgrades the bundled libpq from 16.9 to 18.3 across all builder images (Linux x86_64, Linux aarch64, macOS, Windows).

On Windows, PostgreSQL 18 removed the legacy Perl MSVC build system (build.pl), so the build is migrated to Meson + Ninja. The now-unused pg_config.pl is deleted.

No integration code changes — libpq 18 is backward-compatible with all supported PostgreSQL server versions.

Motivation

We're currently behind multiple major versions that include security fixes and improvements and features

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