Improve token counting for messages with package

[pamelafox]

Purpose

As I needed our token counting and message building functionality for another sample, I moved it to a separate package. That also gave me the opportunity to increase test coverage and receive community contributions for improving it, so it is more accurate than what's currently in this repo (notably, it can now count tools, which it was ignoring before).

You can see the interface for the other package here:
https://pypi.org/project/openai-messages-token-helper/

This PR deletes the code/tests from this repo and replaces them with equivalent functionality in that package.

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[ ] Yes
[X] No

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Type of change

[ ] Bugfix
[ ] Feature
[ ] Code style update (formatting, local variables)
[X] Refactoring (no functional changes, no api changes)
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Code quality checklist

See CONTRIBUTING.md for more details.

• The current tests all pass (python -m pytest).
• I added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works: There is already a test, test_chat_with_long_history, that effectively uses the functionality.
• I ran python -m pytest --cov to verify 100% coverage of added lines
• I ran python -m mypy to check for type errors
• I either used the pre-commit hooks or ran ruff and black manually on my code.

[pamelafox]

I updated types from dict to the more precise ChatCompletionMessageParam, otherwise we get errors, since a dict can have many more properties than that particular TypedDict.

[pamelafox]

I also added types to our few shots

[pamelafox]

I've merged from main, this is ready for review.

[mattgotteiner]

May want to add link to the source of the new package in the README