Use geometric grow for resize in RedistributeGPU

[AlexanderSinn]

Summary

In an attempt to help with #4531 I used the resize_geometric_grow function from #4529 to resize the particle tiles in RedistributeGPU. Additionally, this PR changes the default amrex.vector_growth_factor from 1.5 to 1.25.

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Checklist

The proposed changes:

• fix a bug or incorrect behavior in AMReX
• add new capabilities to AMReX
• changes answers in the test suite to more than roundoff level
• are likely to significantly affect the results of downstream AMReX users
• include documentation in the code and/or rst files, if appropriate

[AlexanderSinn]

I tested this on LUMI and it does not fix the problem

[AlexanderSinn]

This does not fix the problem on its own; however, when combining this with a properly sized arane init size and disabling periodic particle sorting (which reallocates some of the particle vectors), the issue is fixed.