Add ignore_non_running_query option to abort_query method

[chegoryu]

Currently, a race is possible when you try to abort a query, but query finishes between get_state and abort:

>>> client.get_query('8afed27-c66b620d-f4e2d5dc-89661f2b', attributes=["state"])
{'state': 'completed'}
>>> client.abort_query('8afed27-c66b620d-f4e2d5dc-89661f2b')
Traceback (most recent call last):
# ...
    params          {
                      "suppress_transaction_coordinator_sync": false,
                      "query_id": "8afed27-c66b620d-f4e2d5dc-89661f2b",
                      "stage": "production"
                    }
    transparent     True
Query 8afed27-c66b620d-f4e2d5dc-89661f2b not found or is not running

Something like ignore_non_running_query will be very convenient since 99.9% of the time you don't care about the result of the query when you decide to call abort.

[chegoryu]

Also I got this error when trying to retry abort request:

yt.common.YtResponseError: Cannot abort query e1970c13-8965a635-5d2ca50-9d52d4dd which is in state "aborting"