NM_CUSTOMDRAW never be fired

[shyandsy]

NM_CUSTOMDRAW never be fired in VS2017

so I cant change the color of the headers because the OnDisplayRowColor method not called

are there any solutions?

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if i wanna the NM_CUSTOMDRAW message, I have to set the VS_OWNERDRAWFIXED style.

the problem is the CGridListCtrlEx will crash on OnPaint if I set this style